Do I really need a sex sermon? On just a personal note, I find all these sex sermons to be degrading to women, they are being made to feel like they are supposed to do these things, regardless of how they feel, because they are better wives and Christians for it. I don't know, when I hear a pastors advice to single men who struggle with lust to "get a wife and look at her all you want", I find that to be insulting to women and as a single man, frankly not the way I would want my wife to feel. The Bible gives us a very beautiful portrait of the love of a husband and wife in the Song of Solomon, sadly some have tried to pervert this book into a sex manual. It is the type of love I would want to have, a deep emotional love, rooted in Christ that exemplifies all the wonders of marriage without being reduced to something sleazy and insulting. These sex
(John MacArthur wrote a wonderful article on the perversion of the Song of Solomon http://www.shepherdsfellowship.org/pulpit/Posts.aspx?ID=4168)
Note: It is an hour long, too long for some people, listening to some of it or breaking it into parts is probably the easier thing if you are short on time. But well worth it.
